Tips for Keeping Kids Safe
Parents want to ensure their children are happy, healthy and safe. Here are some tips about how to talk to your children about safety, messages you can give to increase positive feelings and suggestions for teaching children about healthy touch.
Increase Positive Feelings
- I love you.
- What you have to say is important.
- Tell someone if you need help.
- You can say "no" to any touch that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Trust Your Children
Children need to feel adults trust them. Helping them make good, safe choices, and to respect themselves and others is one of the most effective ways to keep them safe.
Talk to Your Children About Touch
Teach your children that there are different kinds of touch and sometimes people touch children in ways that are not okay. Let them know that if they feel uncomfortable, it's okay to tell you or another trusted adult.
Teach Your Children How / Where to Get Help
Let your children know they can come to you with any kind of problem. Help them identify other safe adults they can ask for help if they need it (e.g., in an emergency, if frightened or feeling unsafe). Teach them to call 911 and explain that the police are always available to help. Do not use police as a threat when disciplining your child.
As Your Children Get Older Give Them More Information
Give as much information as you think your child understands. Stopping to ask, "Did that make sense to you?" or "Is that what you wanted to know?" may help ensure the information you're providing is appropriate for their age and stage of development.
Keep Talking to Your Children
One discussion is usually not enough. Keep the lines of communication open and be sure to listen.
Be Open and Honest With Your Children
Parents sometimes wonder how much is too much when teaching children about safety. It's important to be honest and open and give truthful answers to questions they may ask.
